tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2611115015183476449.post7454365133264449703..comments2013-09-03T00:18:58.073-07:00Comments on Go Ask Alice: "Invisible Veil"Go ask Alicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01297230685778607238noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2611115015183476449.post-27724111310187464922013-03-19T11:39:19.518-07:002013-03-19T11:39:19.518-07:00I have tο thаnk уou foг the еfforts you have put i...I have tο thаnk уou foг the еfforts you have put in ρеnning thіѕ website.<br />I'm hoping to check out the same high-grade content by you in the future as well. In fact, your creative writing abilities has inspired me to get my very own blog now ;)<br /><br />Here is my blog: <a href="http://www.dallasseospecialists.com/blog/" rel="nofollow">dfw seo</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2611115015183476449.post-74460598591252240972008-12-29T06:05:00.000-08:002008-12-29T06:05:00.000-08:00Kathymom,I enjoyed this article very much. Our dau...Kathymom,<BR/><BR/>I enjoyed this article very much. <BR/><BR/>Our daughter's nor granddaughter's don't realize or even have to think how it was for us in the past. They are allowed to obtain good birth control, they are allowed to obtain an abortion if that's what they want, they are allowed to raise their baby. <BR/><BR/>Only those who were truly given NO choices, understand the place we were put in because we were pregnant. <BR/><BR/>I am glad for the women of today that they do have choices, I am sad that many of those women including my daughter (who was able to have an abortion) and granddaughter will NEVER understand the pain of being forced into surrendering one's OWN baby. <BR/><BR/>My own found son nor his daughter doesn't seem to grasp what happened, or they don't want to, it would burst the happy adoption bubble pf adoptress who just wanted a baby to raise, anyone's baby. It would actually make me the mother of my son look a little less inhumane,(as if there was a choice in adoption in the sixties looks like the mother didn't care) and make the adoptress (out agressively searching for her NEXT purchase the supply and demand theroy) look a little more greedy and that just would NOT do in the fairy tale adoption world. <BR/><BR/>The denial that I as a mother, had no choice.<BR/><BR/>When I think of my sixties born kids BOTH of them were able to choose abortions for their babies, for whatever reason, they were not ready, judging people etc. <BR/><BR/>They chose and were able to choose.<BR/>I remember having that discussion with my found son. He couldn't quite grasp that I didn't and couldn't have an abortion. He was upset that I would "even" speak that way, but what he wasn't factoring in WAS he "did" have a choice. He chose to abort his baby thus, there was no one "questioning" his decisions.His baby DID not live to question, and that is the difference. HE WAS there, questioning me, while his OWN child was not.<BR/><BR/>There was no questioning whether he did the right thing or wrong thing. No punishment for getting a girl pg and not marrying her.(as if the male ever suffered or paid for any pregnancy) He just didn't live in the time of truly NO CHOICE.<BR/><BR/>Believe me even WITH all the questions, ALL the shame I carry for getting pregnant, all the blame for giving birth young and unmarried, all the judging while the judger's are the ones that benefited, or were able to take another route because they could, I<BR/>would and did live through this horrendous, cruelty, of adoption and I am able to tell what happened even if it is on deaf ears, I have told, I will NOT be silenced again. I will NOT be put into the closet to make them or any OTHER person comfortable. <BR/><BR/>NOT MATTER WHAT I have and will tell my truth. EVEN if the truth hurts THEM or ME. THEY need the truth not the lies that adoption tells.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com